Writers Block

After much absence from the blogging world, I have come to have a clear state of mind and a peace within myself to truly say that loving yourself is the first step to a happy life.

After such a tough and roller coaster ride of a year last year, I struggled through heartbreak, dissapointment, betrayal and severe self consciousness. With a smile on my face I came out stronger, wiser and more resistant to pain. 

I love those around me, and grateful for the endless love and support. 

Which brings me to a serious and touching issue that has been so prevalent today, and has prompted me to return with a altered view on expression and inspiration. I do not normally touch upon such emotional issues, but if my words reach at least one person, causing them to treat the world better or help someone out of a deep and dangerous state of mind, my exsistence here would have relevance to the change in humanity.

Depression is a controlling and persistent state of mind. It can happen to anyone, anywhere at anytime. It's important to understand how much damage it can cause. 

Often depression is caused by emotional instability or the infliction of others. The belittling and demeaning behaviour of tearing one down to the point of self-destruction, is so common nowadays. Such actions cause mental and emotional ache for those victims to such abuse.

Why do the people of the world insist on fighting one another, when we all should fight together to survive this life?

The condemnation of one to another is sinister. AND I cannot begin to understand the reason for such behaviour. Is it jealousy? envy? hatred? 

And sadly, yes it is. 

The world has been ravished of its purity and perfection. Becoming a horrible place to be for some, those who would rather die then live through judgement.

This only touches the true evil that the world has become, We live in a world where fighting and killing for the right of land and religion is praised and diplomatically supported, the mistreatment and unethical slaughter of animals have become a sport and poverty has become an acceptable socio-economical class...

Was this the plan for this world? Would our greater being be proud of what we have made of this world? Are you proud of your world?

It is hard to see how you can change the world, in a worldly sense... However, if you narrow your view and focus on aspects at your reach, the image becomes less impossible and more doable, a single change can make a world of difference.

Focus to better yourself, before scrutinising others. Eliminate hate and violence from your life and appreciate the air, before it's to late... 

Peace.

Day Trippn': Berry Buys!

Lovely family friends of ours, took us to Berry recently. They spoke of this towns tranquility and abundance of relaxation and retreat. As we drove into the boutique town I fell in love instantly, from the vintage architecture to the towns laid back vibe. 

Berry is quiet cultural in a sense of design and mood. There is so much to see, do and BUY! My shopping experience was exhilarating, although not leaving with much, I have keen memories and plans to return soon! 

One store that I could no resist was Scullys & Co. 

New Brand Discovery: Scullys & Co. 

(please use the link to visit their page) 

The store itself is a point of attraction. I loved the rustic and country warmth of its atmosphere, which is inviting on its own. Scully has a deliciously scented range of bath, body and home products including Lavender, Rose, Green Tea, Amberlily and White Gardenia and all products are made using the finest natural ingredients,  including essential oils and bio-active ingredients. 

Berry is home to Scullys only franchise, however all products can be bought from their online store. 

Despite the products’ high quality and beautiful packaging, everything is at a suitable and realistic price   

Here is what I couldn't resist!

(Furtherest to the right) The small blue vile. Scullys Cuticle and Nail Revive. Use this after Scullys Hand Scrub for cuticle and nail care maintenance.

Scullys Lavender Refreshing Mist: Love this! Relax's me so easy! Such a stress relief 

Scullys Lavender Hand Scrub: This product made my hands so silky smooth, it removed all my dead skin whilst massaging the lavender essence through to finger tips. Its such an organically soothing product. 

Trending: Lets Go Native; Brazil & Arica

Im currently loving Native inspired clothing and the abstract designs of Brazil and Africa especially! I would love for this trend to be brought to life this Summer, and I wish I could find more items like this!

The colours, bold patterns and entrancing impact of how each piece seems unique to each outfit, fits my style brief. I love loud and unique, so wearing these patterns are so much fun.

The Exotic and daring embellishments and crazy structures of these patterned pieces take me to the Carnival of Rio De Janeiro or the Jungles of Africa. 

Here are a few of my favourite pieces I have found around 

ASOS - African Shirt Dress In Elephant Print $88.72

Sportsgirl - Rio Scuba Body Con $39.95 (currently on sale) 

Sportsgirl - Braziliana Ponte Crop $79.95  & Braziliana Ponte Tube $59.95 

MinkPink-  Road Trip shorts $66 & Road Trip Tee $29 

Sass Clothing - Go Native Shift Dress $79.95

Let me know of stores that sell pieces to this brief, I'm also interested to learn of other Native pattern inspired clothing that you love! 

Body

I don't exactly have a Victoria Secret model body, and I can confidently enough say that I'm happy with just that...

But, aside from looking great, there is preference in the need to feel great! I have lived a sluggish lifestyle, never really held much interest in sports... Always ate what I wanted when I wanted.. But once high school ended and that cushion turned into flab, I knew it was time to be proactive... 

Now, I'm no fitness guru but I do know a thing or two about determination and motivation.

You can buy all the diet books, equipment, food or pay for gyms and personal trainers, but at the end of the day the crunch comes down to you.. 

Your mindset can be your greatest friend or Your greatest enemy... 

Have you ever had a moment in life where you have decided to 'get fit'? Be more active? Never eat junk food again? 

And been so in control of what you ate or did, but saw no results after a few weeks, and then gave up... Story of my life, amen! 

But, I can tell you that the journey never ends, fitness is a lifestyle not a location, you must defeat all insecurity and understand that you are great! 

Remember with no challenge there's no gain, and with no gain comes demotivation... 

So, keep your heads up, chest out and butts up! Love your body not for others but for yourself! And gain and change will come from that! 

My journey to my perfect self, has only begun... I want you to join me! I will be an outlet for motivation.

If anyone has any tips in regards to this area pleas feel free to comment me, I will be beyond happy to hear from you :) 

Stay fab! 

xox

Uni Life

Hey Hey, All my fellow Nerds!

This semester I have a few friends to help me commit to the new semester.

Being a professional procrastinator I find having company from cute stationary makes the year a whole lot easier!

I find a lot more security in having, written allocations of all things to do... 

A balanced medium of study,work, budgeting and a social life is important, so for me organisation is the key... DUH! 

Theres a fun way of doing it, for starters find an all purpose 'Everyday Planner' like mine which I bought from office works for a bargain! I love it! 

Whatever your learning ability stress will come and stress will go... 

However, just remember that with challenge comes gain, and with struggle comes success and appreciation

Uni is only what you make it! 

So make it fun,creative and interesting! It's worked for me :)

I'll keep you all updated on all things uni

Until then...

Stay Fab xox